Zen Talk #133- The Dark & the “Squirrelies”- Self-harming & Neurodiverse Kids
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
3:00 Zen Parenting Moment
6:30 Real time parenting moment
10:15 Cathy waves to cows
11:56 Son is self harming
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
3:00 Zen Parenting Moment
6:30 Real time parenting moment
10:15 Cathy waves to cows
11:56 Son is self harming
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering & random banter
13:46 16 year old daughter unhappy with the way I parent her sibling
21:04 15 year old daughter wearing clothes that I’m uncomfortable with
44:35 13 year old son managing body image
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering & random banter
8:55 When you and your partner are out of sync and your rhythm and communication is out of whack, what is the next right thing to do? What is a tactical first step you can take to find your way back?
22:30 Monitoring my 13 year old son’s screen time and struggles balancing self-care (sleeping) to stay awake when he gets home
38:41 My son deals with anxiety and perfectionism
54:00 My 15 year old daughter anxiety manifests into the physical
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:23 Centering
5:43 I cannot connect with my 15 year old son
27:15 Do I help repair the relationship with my mother-in-law and my autistic 16 year old daughter who has an eating disorder
43:40 My 18 year old daughter struggles with depression and is asking existential questions.
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:45 Centering
5:45 My 11 year old boy needs more structure
19:28 I screamed at my 11 year old son because he scared me and now I am feeling guilty about how I reacted
33:37 My 9 year old son is disrupting the class because he is playing one of the “jokers” in the class
45:22 How do I react when my child tries to console me?
48:22 How do I navigate my way through my 12 year old son’s temper tantrum
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Sibling rivalry
8:09 16 year old daughter has a bad soccer coach and is impacting the entire team and relationship within the Team
19:46 15 year old daughter snuck out of the house
35:42 14 year old boy is cheating on tests and doesn’t want to talk about sex or consent
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
0:37 Toddlers Biting
18:08 Lonely Boys
26:04 Perfectionism
36:55 Is this a problem?
43:00 Words
48:28 Eating Disorders
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Introductions
6:13 Centering
6:34 New Resource
9:36 13 yr old daughter crassness
23:07 Mom with cancer
35:10 14 year old boy phone privileges
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:32 Centering
4:45 Teaching my 16 year old daughter to drive
13:22 13 year old son has night terrors
28:17 Struggling through a divorce
43:53 10 year old son who is lazy
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
8:42 10 year autistic daughter navigating sexuality
30:33 12 year old boy navigating gender
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
3:57 9 Year old that has melt-downs
23:03 15 year old smoked weed
33:39 18 year old daughter lashing out before she goes to school
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
4:31 Sister has cancer
23:48 Son who struggles with self-regulation and perfectionism
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
4:08 Biofeedback
40:09 Frustrated end of school year
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
2:47 Morning routines
16:14 Book recommendations
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
3:00 14 year old son struggling with anxiety
31:39 Dorm essentials
32:40 Transition to high school
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
3:09 New resources
9:18 My son and I are going to live in the US and my husband is staying in Switzerland for one year
20:20 My sixteen year old has a boyfriend and I’m not sure how to be with it
33:06 Ten year old son is introverted and doesn’t want to hand with the grand parents
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:42 Centering
2:10 Karate… To quit or not to quit
12:25 Self-care or kids?
26:55 Anxiety- Husband leaving for two weeks and I’m alone with a 2 & 4 year old!!!
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:53 Mercedes introduction- https://shameproofparenting.com/
11:30 EMDR introduction
21:46 Disassociates or doesn’t remember trauma-
29:29 Teenagers
34:40 Disconnecting from emotions
41:58 Adoption
51:47 Does it do any good to look backwards to move forward?
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:19 Centering
4:16 Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)
29:30 13 year old son is watching porn
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:02 Centering
5:30 BRIEF acronym
13:08 Getting teenage sons to open up
22:39 Should I ask my kids if they have a memory from childhood where they were offended, hurt, or made to feel unseen by something I did or said?
33:43 Conversation crashers