Zen Talk #156- 16 Year Old Boy Disconnecting & Eating Disorders
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:32 Centering
2:53 16 Year Old Boy Disconnecting
30:25 19 Year old daughter challenged with eating disorders
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:32 Centering
2:53 16 Year Old Boy Disconnecting
30:25 19 Year old daughter challenged with eating disorders
Discussion & Time Stamps
3:04 Centering
4:45 Heather intro
15:04 Busy
20:57 Question- Busy to claim space
28:10 Having reserves
44:31 The “problems” with being in flow
Discussion & Time Stamps
5:30 Centering
8:11 Finances with 15 year old daughter
28:00 12 year old son feeling sadness
43:03 Short tempered 12 year old daughter
Discussion & Time Stamps
2:02 Centering
4:13 13 year old daughter is hanging out with the wrong people
15:08 15 year old son might be sexually active
34:15 What’s the impact of the pandemic
29:52 Nudes
44:20 14 year old son struggling with focus. Should we get him tested?
44:28 Two teenage boys struggling with emotional expression/boy crisis
Discussion & Time Stamps
5:48 Daughter had a bad day at practice with coach- should i intervene?
22:42 14 year old daughter has a boyfriend…what now?
37:34 Daughter would rather be at home than be with her peers.
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 TV Banter
2:40 Centering
7:42 Combative 12 year old
25:15 Enneagram
45:00 Announcements
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 TV Banter
2:40 Centering
7:42 Combative 12 year old
25:15 Enneagram
45:00 Announcements
Discussion & Time Stamps
2:54 My child’s grandfather is narcissistic
24:12 I’m not a perfect mom
37:30 Differently wired kids
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:48
3:07 The middle place frustrations- toddlers, grandparents and everything in between
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:08 Centering
2:31 15 year old son doesn’t want to go on weekend with the family and instead stay home
13:33 Dealing with infidelity in a marriage
39:01 Husband struggling with alcohol and impacting the kids
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:39 Centering
5:35 Cannot connect with my 12-year-old daughter
37:20 Alcohol boundaries when college kids come home for summer
Discussion & Time Stamps
3:25 Centering
9:06 Talking to my teenager when he gets home at night
35:34 18 year daughter coming home
45:51 The art of letting go (or sometimes saying “what the f*#k”)
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:54 Centering
9:45 Mother of a 9 year old bot and 6 year old daughter and dealing with transition to summer
18:55 Feeling depleted and frustrated with broken systems
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:54 Centering
5:30 Mood meter
13:00 11 year old son is watching porn
38:00 consequences
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:54 Centering
7:38 Persuading my 10 year old son to go into therapy
22:39 Releasing control over my 15 year old son
54:46 Sibling rivalry
Cathy and I took about 24 minutes answering a question about Teenage Sons: Shifting the Dynamics
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:42 Weather
3:25 Baseball as a mindfulness practice
6:32 Centering
9:58 I’m worried my 11 year old son will be on his screen all summer
26:03 Deep dive into reluctant partners
Discussion & Time Stamps
4:58 Centering
7:12 I’m in a relationship with somebody who is holding a grudge and I’m not sure how to deal with it
16:14 Maintaining boundaries with my mom who is a narcissist
47:50 Family is asking me to mellow out and I don’t know how
Cathy and I took about 10 minutes answering a question about screen time boundaries.
Discussion & Time Stamps
4:31 11 Year old son not fitting in
12:35 19 year old daughter with depression
30:08 9 year old son with anxiety, self-esteem, and perfectionistic issues
44:06 Son being tested for neurodiversity.
53:05 Youth and conformity